{"id":4262,"date":"2018-10-17T08:02:45","date_gmt":"2018-10-17T00:02:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ec2-54-254-239-209.ap-southeast-1.compute.amazonaws.com\/?p=4262"},"modified":"2026-01-14T23:56:11","modified_gmt":"2026-01-14T15:56:11","slug":"assign-helpers-tasks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/assign-helpers-tasks\/","title":{"rendered":"Should I Assign My Domestic Helper&#8217;s Tasks?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Once the hiring phase is over, you will come to realize that putting on the \u2018employer hat\u2019 is an absolute must. The helper-employer relationship requires constant work as managing a domestic helper not only involves managing the relationship but also your domestic helper\u2019s work \u2013 and the live-in factor can sometimes complicate things. Employers can manage their domestic helpers\u2019 work in a different way. Each and every one of us&nbsp;has&nbsp;one\u2019s very own style. While some of us are adepts of micro-management by either planning down to the last minute or down to daily chores, others prefer to give them a global tasks schedule and carte blanche.<\/p><div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_81 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/assign-helpers-tasks\/#Work_management_whats_the_best_style\" >Work management:\u00a0what\u2019s\u00a0the best style?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/assign-helpers-tasks\/#How_to_bring_it_up_with_your_domestic_helper\" >How to bring it up with your domestic helper?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/assign-helpers-tasks\/#Design_your_domestic_helpers_schedule\" >Design your domestic helper\u2019s schedule<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/assign-helpers-tasks\/#Make_it_work\" >Make it work<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/assign-helpers-tasks\/#Review_Adjust_and_Give_Feedback\" >Review, Adjust and Give Feedback<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/assign-helpers-tasks\/#Finding_a_Rhythm_That_Works_at_Home\" >Finding a Rhythm That Works at Home<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Work_management_whats_the_best_style\"><\/span><strong>Work management:\u00a0what\u2019s\u00a0the best style?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether you should micro-manage your domestic helper\u2019s work or on the contrary let her get organized is up to you. There is no one-size-fits-all management style. There is only a style that fits you and your domestic worker. Any style is fine as long as it works for both of you. Keep in mind that it is supposed to facilitate her work \u2013 and yours\u2019 as an employer \u2013 and your relationship. At the end of the day, it\u2019s really up to you to decide whether you should provide her with simple guidelines, \u2013 either oral or written \u2013 a simple tasks list or a more elaborate timetable with detailed instructions and deadlines.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"787\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/domestic-helper-interview.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5672\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/domestic-helper-interview.png 787w, https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/domestic-helper-interview-300x152.png 300w, https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/domestic-helper-interview-768x390.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 787px) 100vw, 787px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_bring_it_up_with_your_domestic_helper\"><\/span><strong>How to bring it up with your domestic helper?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ideally, this should be brought up during the interview so your&nbsp;helper-to-be can know what your expectations are and what her responsibilities will be in order to make an informed decision. During the interview, ask her how she prefers to do things then let her know how you prefer to get things done. Ask her if she\u2019d be comfortable with that. Explain why you want certain things, \u2013&nbsp;<em>the non-negotiables<\/em>&nbsp;\u2013 but not necessarily all, to be done in a specific way. Let her know that you believe that scheduling her tasks might just be the right way for her not to miss out any of the chores you expect her to perform.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Design_your_domestic_helpers_schedule\"><\/span><strong>Design your domestic helper\u2019s schedule<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There are many templates available online that you might want to use as a baseline to create your very own domestic helper\u2019s schedule. Make sure that you edit them so they fit your household needs as those may vary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"940\" height=\"705\" src=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Weekly-plan.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4955\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Weekly-plan.png 940w, https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Weekly-plan-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Weekly-plan-768x576.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Make_it_work\"><\/span><strong>Make it work<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Be patient as it will take some time for your domestic helper to learn and adapt your way of doing things. Allow for flexibility \u2013 if she is quite experienced, she probably has her very own methods that might even yield better results. You might want to give them a try \u2013 in such case, it might be best to go for a simple routine that will simply remind her of the chores to be performed. What matters the most is that work gets done. If she is a novice, you\u2019ll probably need to supervise her work more closely \u2013 at least in the first few weeks \u2013 and a clear and detailed tasks schedule including cleaning instructions might just be the right way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Review_Adjust_and_Give_Feedback\"><\/span><strong>Review, Adjust and Give Feedback<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Make sure to include some blank spaces in her schedule as certain last-minute unplanned tasks might arise and can cause a delay in your domestic helper\u2019s work. If she can\u2019t perform a task on time, try to understand why \u2013 maybe you have underestimated the time needed to perform a particular task \u2013 and adjust your expectations based on work realities. Don\u2019t expect the timetable to be set once for good \u2013 it is most likely to be updated from time to time. Whether you decide to go for micromanagement or not, don\u2019t forget to give your domestic worker regular feedback on the work she performs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Finding_a_Rhythm_That_Works_at_Home\"><\/span><strong>Finding a Rhythm That Works at Home<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Managing a domestic helper\u2019s work is an ongoing process, not a one-time setup. Whether you choose close supervision or a more flexible approach, success comes from clarity, patience, and communication.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When expectations are shared openly and schedules are used as support tools rather than control mechanisms, both employers and helpers are more likely to feel confident, respected, and comfortable in their roles \u2014 creating a smoother, more balanced home environment.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Once the hiring phase is over, you will come to realize that putting on the \u2018employer hat\u2019 is an absolute must. The helper-employer relationship requires constant work as managing a domestic helper not only involves managing the relationship but also your domestic helper\u2019s work \u2013 and the live-in factor can sometimes complicate things. 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