{"id":4702,"date":"2020-06-10T15:26:00","date_gmt":"2020-06-10T07:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ec2-54-254-239-209.ap-southeast-1.compute.amazonaws.com\/?p=4702"},"modified":"2026-01-28T03:06:04","modified_gmt":"2026-01-27T19:06:04","slug":"4-common-domestic-helper-problems-overcome","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/4-common-domestic-helper-problems-overcome\/","title":{"rendered":"4 Common Domestic Helper Problems and How to Overcome Them"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Updated 26 January 2026<\/p><div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_81 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/4-common-domestic-helper-problems-overcome\/#Problem_1_You_are_not_satisfied_with_your_domestic_helpers_work\" >Problem 1: You are not satisfied with your domestic helper\u2019s work<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/4-common-domestic-helper-problems-overcome\/#Our_advice\" >Our advice<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/4-common-domestic-helper-problems-overcome\/#Our_advice_for_employers-to-be\" >Our advice for employers-to-be<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/4-common-domestic-helper-problems-overcome\/#Problem_2_Your_domestic_helper_is_being_dishonest\" >Problem 2: Your domestic helper is being dishonest<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/4-common-domestic-helper-problems-overcome\/#Our_advice-2\" >Our advice<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/4-common-domestic-helper-problems-overcome\/#Problem_3_You_are_afraid_that_your_domestic_helper_might_get_pregnant\" >Problem 3: You are afraid that your domestic helper might get pregnant<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/4-common-domestic-helper-problems-overcome\/#Our_advice-3\" >Our advice<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/4-common-domestic-helper-problems-overcome\/#Problem_4_Your_child_is_too_attached_to_your_domestic_helper\" >Problem 4: Your child is too attached to your domestic helper<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/4-common-domestic-helper-problems-overcome\/#Our_advice-4\" >Our advice<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/4-common-domestic-helper-problems-overcome\/#A_Simple_Conversation_Framework_to_Solve_Problems\" >A Simple Conversation Framework to Solve Problems<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/4-common-domestic-helper-problems-overcome\/#Final_Thought\" >Final Thought<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Issues can sometimes arise and complicate your relationship with your domestic helper. If they have not promptly been dealt with, they can end up deteriorating your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/how-to-handle-domestic-helper-problems\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">relationship with your domestic helper<\/a>. Here are some of the most common problems you can face and a few tips to overcome them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15165\" src=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/domestic-worker-problems.png\" alt=\"Domestic worker problems\" width=\"800\" height=\"550\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Problem_1_You_are_not_satisfied_with_your_domestic_helpers_work\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Problem 1: You are not satisfied with your domestic helper\u2019s work<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There might be various reasons why you are not satisfied with your domestic helper\u2019s work, causing you to feel frustrated and even angry. Sometimes, it is because she does not clean the house as thoroughly as you would like, or because she lets the grocery out on the kitchen counter for too long instead of storing them where they belong or because you have reasons to believe that your children are not being well cared for or even neglected, etc.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Our_advice\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our advice<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have a talk with your domestic helper to frame the issue and understand why she is not performing as you would want her to and take adequate measures to solve the problem.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be clearer as to what you are expecting of her. If she is underperforming because she does not understand your guidelines due to a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/overcoming-language-barriers\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">language barrier<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, repeat instructions several times, write them down for her if necessary and encourage her to take language classes.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If she is not as competent as advised, allow her time to improve some of her skills i.e. through <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/hong-kong\/trainings\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">classes or training<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Being patient indicates that you are willing to make this relationship work. However, be firm and make it clear that you have expectations and let her know that termination is not off the table should those expectations not be met after a reasonable amount of time or should she give you no reason to believe that she is committed to doing better.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to understand why she lacks interest in certain tasks. If she is not keen on improving her performance, make it clear that termination will eventually be your only resort left.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you find out that she is underperforming because she is tired, sit down with her and review her work schedule. For example, if she is tired because she is the one taking care of your toddler who cannot sleep through the night, you could decide to implement night shifts.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Should you be asking too much of her by setting unrealistic goals for her to attain, review them and ensure that you set clear and realistic goals, and reduce her workload if necessary. Create a space for open dialogue and ensure that you give your domestic helper regular feedback on her work and encourage her to share feedback too.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your domestic helper might be distracted which could prevent her from focusing on her work. In some cases, she might just be brain-scattered. Talk to her to understand what may be going on, remind her of her responsibilities and let her know that you expect her to pay more attention to her work or, if not, measures will have to be taken.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Our_advice_for_employers-to-be\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our advice for employers-to-be<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To prevent this scenario from unfolding, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/3-things-to-keep-in-mind-find-right-helper\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">be clear and firm about your expectations<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> during the screening phase of the hiring process so both parties can know what they are in for.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Problem_2_Your_domestic_helper_is_being_dishonest\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Problem 2: Your domestic helper is being dishonest<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dishonesty comes in various forms i.e. your domestic helper not telling the truth or stealing from you. While duplicity and abuse of trust can certainly be real, other factors can be at play:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It might just be that your domestic helper does not understand your guidelines because of her limited language skills;<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can be due to a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/domestic-helper-cultural-differences\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cultural difference<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. In some cultures, it is considered respectful not to ask any questions and agreeing is the most appropriate thing to do.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might be spotting certain objects in new locations around the house or be under the impression that they do not belong here or there, prompting you to be suspicious and question your domestic helper\u2019s honesty.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Our_advice-2\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our advice<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be patient. If that\u2019s a cultural matter, it might be necessary to repeat several times that it is absolutely fine for her to ask questions when she does not understand what it is that you are expecting from her. If you don\u2019t find an object anymore, you may find it again in the coming days.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If that is due to a language barrier, make sure to repeat instructions on various occasions, slowly, and write them down for her if necessary and\/or recommend that she takes a language course.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you find out that she is actually lying to you, sit down with her and make it clear that this is not a behaviour you condone. Let her know that if she keeps deceiving you, this will be a serious deal-breaker.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stealing is a serious misconduct and an abuse of trust. You should never accuse someone of stealing without evidence. Instead, ask your domestic helper if she knows anything about the missing or misplaced If you are sure that your domestic helper has something to do with it \u2013 and only then \u2013 the best attitude to adopt is threatened to call the police \u2013 which might get her to return any stolen items \u2013 and give her a chance to explain herself. Some employers decide to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/install-cctv-monitor-helper-singapore\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">install a video camera<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to monitor their domestic helpers; while it can surely dissuade from stealing, it can backfire and negatively impact the relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Problem_3_You_are_afraid_that_your_domestic_helper_might_get_pregnant\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Problem 3: You are afraid that your domestic helper might get pregnant<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is a common cause for concern for many employers who fear being left high and dry without any support should their domestic helper get pregnant at some point during their employment. While it is understandable that employers in such circumstances might feel helpless, you must keep in mind that your domestic helper\u2019s reproductive choice and sexual health are private matters.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Our_advice-3\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our advice<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If this is putting you in distress, it can be a good thing to initiate a conversation on the subject with your domestic helper \u2013 only and only if \u2013 she seems open to it. It might enable you to put your mind at ease \u2013 who knows, you mind end up finding out that she does not even want to have a child. It could even benefit your domestic helper should she have any questions regarding contraception or sexual health for instance. In such case, you should recommend that she sees an OB-GYN for further information.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Should your domestic helper decide to have a child, you need to accept that it is her right. Pregnancy or fear of a pregnancy of a domestic helper should never be a reason for dismissal and is punishable by law. Moreover, it is unacceptable to impose any contraceptive method on your domestic helper. Domestic helpers \u2013 similarly to workers in any other sector \u2013 are entitled to their reproductive rights.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your domestic helper is pregnant, the best thing to do is discuss with your domestic helper as early as possible so both of you can make arrangements and come up with a contingency plan. In this case, you may want to plan to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/part-time-help-options-hong-kong\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hire part-time help<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> during her maternity leave.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some employers choose to opt out of hiring young candidates. Nevertheless, it is highly discriminatory and this measure does not guarantee that the ones who make the cut won\u2019t have children at some point during their employment with you.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Problem_4_Your_child_is_too_attached_to_your_domestic_helper\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Problem 4: Your child is too attached to your domestic helper<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Children can easily get attached to those individuals they spend a lot of time with and are comfortable with. While it is a good thing for your child to bond with your domestic helper, as a parent, it might be difficult to accept that your little one is connecting with someone else. Feeling hurt, ignored or even jealous are legitimate feelings. Sometimes, you might even be under the impression that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.helperchoice.com\/c\/help-child-prefers-helper\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">your child just prefers your domestic helper<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. While this certainly isn\u2019t true, the whole situation might create tensions.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Our_advice-4\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our advice<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to spend as much time as possible with your child by allocating \u2018private time\u2019 moments to share with them. Ensure that you are the one spending time with them when you are home. You might want to discuss this with your domestic helper and agree that when you are around, you will be the one taking care of the feeding, changing and bathing them, tucking them into bed and playing with them.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do not hesitate to share your concerns with your domestic helper. No matter how painful it might be, being mad at your domestic helper won\u2019t do any good \u2013 after all, it means that she is taking good care of your child. Instead, bring up the topic and tell her how it makes you feel and discuss the solutions you could find together to overcome the situation. She may be a mother too and surely won\u2019t have any trouble putting herself in your shoes.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2 data-start=\"3970\" data-end=\"4022\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A_Simple_Conversation_Framework_to_Solve_Problems\"><\/span>A Simple Conversation Framework to Solve Problems<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"4024\" data-end=\"4066\">When addressing a concern, try this steps:<\/p>\n<ol data-start=\"4068\" data-end=\"4251\">\n<li data-start=\"4068\" data-end=\"4120\">\n<p data-start=\"4071\" data-end=\"4120\">Describe the specific behaviour (not blame)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4121\" data-end=\"4161\">\n<p data-start=\"4124\" data-end=\"4161\">Show or explain what you expect<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4162\" data-end=\"4204\">\n<p data-start=\"4165\" data-end=\"4204\">Ask how you can help them succeed<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4205\" data-end=\"4251\">\n<p data-start=\"4208\" data-end=\"4251\">Agree on next steps and follow up later<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p data-start=\"4253\" data-end=\"4318\">This method promotes a shared understanding rather than conflict.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"4325\" data-end=\"4341\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Final_Thought\"><\/span>Final Thought<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"4343\" data-end=\"4637\">Every working relationship benefits from clear communication, mutual respect, and an effort to understand one another\u2019s perspective. When employers take time to explain expectations, listen actively, and address challenges early, many common problems dissolve before they become serious issues.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4639\" data-end=\"4796\">Positive working relationships make everyone\u2019s day easier \u2014 and help your helper feel valued and confident in her role.\u00a0<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Updated 26 January 2026 Issues can sometimes arise and complicate your relationship with your domestic helper. If they have not promptly been dealt with, they can end up deteriorating your relationship with your domestic helper. Here are some of the most common problems you can face and a few tips to overcome them. 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